You Don’t Actually Know What You Value — Here’s Proof [episode 75]

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In this episode, I challenge the idea that knowing your values is the same as actually living by them. You might say family, health, faith, or hard work matters most to you, but what happens when something else asks for your time, energy, or attention? If you’ve ever said yes to something that pulled you away from what matters most, this episode will help you look at your values in a much more practical way.

I talk about how to uncover what you actually value by looking at what you resent giving up, when you feel most like yourself, and the decisions you’re proud of even when they disappointed someone else. I share a coaching example that shows how a good opportunity can still be the wrong fit, and explain how to turn vague value words into specific rules that guide your decisions. I also talk about how boundaries protect your values and why your values should show up in your calendar, your conversations, and what you say yes and no to.

In this episode, You Don’t Actually Know What You Value — Here’s Proof, I cover:

• Why knowing your values and using them to make decisions are two different things
• Three questions that can reveal what you actually value
• How the things you resent giving up can point to what you’re trying to protect
• Why a good opportunity isn’t always the right opportunity for you
• How to turn vague values into specific rules you can actually use
• The connection between your values, boundaries, and everyday decisions
• Why your values should show up in your calendar, not just on a list or poster

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Related Episodes:

• Episode 33. What if “time” is not actually the problem?
• Episode 59. Why Everything Feels Like A Priority
• Episode 72. Why You’re Not Getting Results—and What to Change

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The long hours. The responsibility. The constant pull between your work, your family, and everything else that depends on you.

Maybe you’ve found yourself second-guessing decisions, overcommitting, or wondering how long you can keep going at this pace.

If that sounds familiar—you’re in the right place.

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I’m your host, Kacee Bohle—coach, speaker, and founder of AGRIMINDS®. I help ag professionals navigate the real challenges of leadership, without burning out in the process.

Each week, we’ll talk through what’s actually happening behind the scenes—
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• Confidence, mindset, and communication
• And creating a life that works for you—not one that constantly drains you

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